Duration of sex before ejaculation
It’s important to understand that many males want to have longer duration of sex before ejaculation even if they are absolutely healthy and don’t have PE disorder. Medical experts cannot say the normal duration of sex before ejaculation because it fluctuate so greatly between men depending on the age, state of health, arousal and even individually it can change because of different factors such as mood, different partners, situations and time without sex.
The studies held to find out the normal time of ejaculation have demonstrated that the most common time to ejaculation is from 3 to 7 minutes. Still if your time before ejaculation is over a minute and it doesn’t worry you or your partner, you possibly don’t have sexual problem such as premature ejaculation.
Specialists say that rapid or premature ejaculation usually can have two main forms. Lifelong or primary form of PE is when males suffer from PE from the first time they have sexual activity. Obtained or secondary form of PE develops in men later, after many years of sexual life without problems.
Many young males have PE due to the beginning of their sexual experience, they often get more control with age and get rid of the problem without any special treatment.
Some men require counseling and practicing special techniques to cope with the problem and it disappears by itself.
Still if the form of the condition is severe, it requires medical treatment. Ask your doctor about available treatment options. One of the treatments for PE accessible now is Priligy tablets for oral intake. Priligy can help you manage the problem and become more confident with your sexual partner.
Premature Ejaculation frequency and impact
Lots of men aged 19 to 60 have experience rapid ejaculatation even before having sexual intercourse with their partner.
Some couples suffer from the inability to have a fulfilled intercourse because men are unable to control excitement and often ejaculate before penetration.
Some men can hardly last a minute after penetration and the condition impacts both partners causing distress and fear of sexual failure. For many couples it may result in divorce.
PE is a very common medical condition. Some sex experts suggest that about one-third of all men suffer from PE or will have PE at some moment of their life. The actual frequency of this delicate sexual problem is really hard to evaluate.
The number of the sufferers could be higher, considering many are reluctant to discuss this problem with medical professionals.
A World Health Organization announced the results of the study conducted recently in Asia, according to the study an early ejaculation was the most common of all sexual problems among males. It was assessed that between 25% and 33% of all men ejaculated before they wish to.
The findings based on different PE studies have shown that women who experienced problems of sexual dissatisfaction are unhappy in their sexual life and are willing to talk frankly about the trouble without the presence of their husband or partner.
PE often leads to psychological problems in men and women as well and, if not controlled, PE may finally affect self-esteem of a man. The problem with men is in their hesitation or reluctance to discuss the condition with anybody else.
Sometimes married women prefer to keep their husbands’ problems in secret because it could affect their husbands’ self-esteem.
The burden of rapid ejaculation is both emotional and physical. Men need to be sexually active and satisfy their partners to be self-confident and happy.
If you have PE or your partner suffers from this condition, and it’s making you or your partner unhappy, you should ask help, visit your doctor and start the treatment.
What happens in PE condition?
The process of ejaculation in men suffering from PE is the same as in healthy males without any sexual disorders, but it occurs much more rapidly and with less or without any control over ejaculation. Men with PE say they feel that they are going to ejaculate but can’t do anything to prevent it. This happens because ejaculation is a reflex process that is directed by the brain and nervous system, and once started it can’t be ceased. Ejaculation can be provoked by both emotional and physical sexual arousal.
Experts still have no distinct answer why some males experience quicker sexual response than others. Previously, PE was considered to be a merely a psychological condition, nowadays doctors are inclined to consider that it can be as well afflicted by physical disorders related to the serotonin signals in the brain that direct ejaculation. The researchers have recently found a gene controlling serotonin signs that could be associated with appearing of PE.
Does psychotherapy work?
There are practically no special sex therapy studies to evaluate if they can help the patients with PE. However these studies report a tendency for 75 % of men involved to get more control over rapid ejaculation and have a satisfactory sexual activity.
It is not proved by the results of special researches that individual or couple psychotherapy may contribute to the PE improvement in men, but the statistic data shows that individual therapy, for instance, helps the single men with PE to enter into new relationships more easily and reduces fear of previous failures.
Behavioral psychotherapy is a very good way to learn specific techniques to control the ejaculation process, arousal, and cope with fear and anxiety.
Couples therapy is also helpful in solving the difficulties affecting performance in bed and in learning behavioral techniques as well. These techniques involving ejaculatory control and stimulation are practiced by both partners toghether.
Combining medications with psychological therapies allows a delay of ejaculation. Medications help giving more confidence to a man who learns not to fear his arousal. Once the result is successfully achieved many men can do without medications.
Recent attitudes to psychotherapy focus on control of ejaculation by learning new techniques, getting confidence, reducing anxiety and having better communication.
Sex therapists believe that psychological treatments alone or combined with medications have general improvement in sexual and relationship satisfaction.
Psychological impact of PE and benefits of psychotherapy
Premature ejaculation is the rapid ejaculation prior to the wishes of both sexual partners. The causes of PE are not fully understood and explained still there is a great range of explanations from the purely biological to the purely psychological. Recent researches show that it is a more complex correlation involved between physiology and psychology. Psychological impact of PE makes the situation with ejaculation even worse so the treatment is usually complex consisting of medications and psychological therapies.
Inability to satisfy a partner especially if it happens frequently can decrease men’s self-confidence, cause stress, anxiety and depression. A man usually deals with problems in the existing relationships because of fear to fail and misunderstanding of the partner. Very often males with PE are reluctant to start new relationships.
Different psychological methods are available for PE treatment. And it is considered by most doctors that psychotherapy alone is best for men or for both partners where the problem is clearly psychological, for example, PE is caused by depression or performance anxiety.
An individual psychotherapy may help single men who want to start new relationships and overcome their fears.
Psychotherapy may reveal some facts from the past from childhood which may be the causes of the existing condition.
Individual or combined psychotherapy may help partners if they are both moved to solve the problem.
Priligy Side effects
Priligy is a safe and commonly well-tolerated drug, still it may cause side effects. Read this information about Priligy side effects or ask your doctor for more information.
Priligy can cause severe allergic reactions:
- skin rash;
- hives;
- itching;
- swelling of the face, lips, tongue.
If you experience any of these side effects, call your doctor immediately.
Less serious side effects:
- headache;
- dry mouth;
- dizziness;
- nausea;
- diarrhea;
- insomnia.
Side effects mentioned above are not dangerous for your health if they happen seldom. If they occur frequently and bother you, you should consult your doctor.
There may be other side effects of the drug, inform your doctor if you have strange or unusual conditions (especially if you have thought of suicide, if you are depressed).
What conditions should I watch for while on Priligy?
Priligy is a new drug which undergoes different tests to state its efficacy and evaluate possible health risks. It is clinically proved that the medicine is well tolerated and safe; however, it may cause certain conditions which can be bothersome or even serious for your health.
Priligy causes drowsiness and dizziness rather often so you should avoid driving and operating any machinery in case this medicine is affecting you. It is highly advised by the doctors not to stand up or sit up quickly, especially if you are over 60 years of old. It can cause fainting spells.
Do not consume alcohol to prevent dizziness and fainting. The interactions between Priligy and alcohol are not yet completely stated, that is why you should be especially careful if you decide to drink alcohol while on this drug.
If your mouth gets dry and you are constantly thirsty, visit your doctor; you may be experiencing one of Priligy’s side effects. Priligy may change blood sugar levels. Check your blood sugar regularly if you are suffering from diabetes.
If you want to stop taking medicine, do not stop suddenly. Your doctor may recommend you special schedule according to which you will reduce the dose gradually. This reducing of the dose helps to avoid appearing possible side effects and worsening of the condition.
Priligy – safe and effective for premature ejaculation
Priligy is a drug for PE treatment that is undergoing several clinical studies to be approved by FDA. According to the results of a phase 2 double-blind, randomized, placebo-controlled, 3-phase crossover trial the drug is safe and effective for getting more control over early ejaculation in men.
To estimate the tolerability and efficacy of the drug in comparison to placebo 166 male patients aged 23 to 64 years were tested. They suffer from a baseline intravaginal ejaculatory latency time (IELT) less than1 minute. They received the drug in doses of 30, 60 and 100mg and placebo in a series of three crossover treatment periods. All subjects had monogamous relationships.
Results of the study showed that Priligy is effective. It significantly increased the time of ejaculation compared with placebo.
The 62% tested males reported satisfaction from intercourse “good to very good” compared with (27%) placebo. The most common side effects reported were nausea and headache.
The results of the studies demonstrate that Priligy can be taken when needed and that the drug provides significant improvement in premature ejaculation disorder.
How to Prevent Premature Ejaculation
Performance anxiety is one of the factors provoking PE in men. Talk to your sexual partner about your feelings regularly it can help to solve the psychological problem. Talking is a good experience for both partners. Try to relax and discuss the problem and it often goes away. As it has been mentioned before in “Treatments for premature ejaculation” there are different methods to last longer in bed, read about other ways to get control over ejaculation.
Self Distraction can prevent PE:
If a climax is almost here, take a deep breath. You can also think about something else.
“Stop and Start” way to avoid rapid ejaculation:
If the climax is near take your penis from your partner and relax enough to avoid early ejaculation. By this method of stopping sexual activity you can last longer in bed.
“Squeeze” method to last longer:
A person should simply squeeze the end or the tip of the penis for 20 seconds to control the ejaculating process, then continue sexual act.
Special Desensitizing Creams and thick condoms:
These creams are used to make the end of the penis less sensitive. They work as a local anesthetic. Thick condoms can also decrease sensitivity of the penis.
Foreplay:
Sexual stimulation before intercourse can prolong sexual activity and ejaculation and orgasm for both partners can be achieved at the same moment.
Masturbation method
Masturbating regularly will help you to know your sensations and give more control over ejaculation.
Practicing these methods will help you gain self confidence in your relationships and last longer in bed. If these methods do not help you, visit your sex therapist.
Priligy an Effective Premature Ejaculation Therapy
When a normal ejaculation is a release of sperm and seminal fluid from the penis during sexual intercourse, premature ejaculation is an early, uncontrolled and rapid ejaculation. This condition has a great influence on sexual life of both partners due to embarrassment and anxiety that PE causes. Premature ejaculation is a common sexual dysfunction, which affects one-third of men worldwide. This dysfunction is necessary to diagnose and treat when the first symptoms appear.
PE can be treated by non- medical methods which were described in “Treatments of premature ejaculation”, still if they do not help, there are medical treatments.
Priligy (dapoxetine hydrochloride) is an effective and safe therapy for treating PE in males. Priligy allows a male to get control over ejaculation in male and prolong the time of sexual activity.
Priligy is not approved by Food and Drug Administration (USA). The drug is on the market in Germany, Spain, Finland, Portugal, Austria, United Kingdom and Sweden.
The main component of the drug – dapoxetine hydrochloride is a short-acting, selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI).
The drug is taken when needed, 1-3 hours before sexual intercourse. Clinic studies have shown that Priligy helps to last longer and regulate ejaculation process.